This is me. Christmas 1996. Try telling this 9-year-old that in thirty years’ time, they won’t even follow their beloved West Ham United, let alone play football. At nine, I was playing regularly, with the boys, and had posters from Match magazine plastered all over my claret-and-blue bedroom walls. Then puberty hit and I wasn’t allowed to play with the boys anymore. My school didn’t have a girls’ team and my options for playing for fun dwindled until I drifted away from football completely. I’ve told this story many times before, but it’s worth telling again, if only because that 9-year-old probably wouldn’t believe what I witnessed on Sunday night either. And because, thanks to those girls and women who – unlike me – kept fighting for their right to play, the story of women’s football in this country has changed forever.
Let’s start at the beginning. Well, not right at the beginning, because the roots of football as a game, and women’s role in it, are a little too complex and disputed for this blog to address in one post. (Perhaps another day?) Let’s start at the beginning of the “modern” game in England: 7 May 1881. The first recorded women’s football match. England play Scotland (though there’s some controversy over the true nationality of the players) and Lily St Clair scores the first goal, making her the first ever recorded female goal-scorer. Scotland win 2-0.
Following this, the popularity of the women’s game continued to grow during the 1880s and 1890s, with many teams – as with the men’s game – being formed from factory workers. There were strong ties between women’s football and the suffrage movement too, with female footballers offering women a chance to disprove the argument - often wheeled out to oppose the idea of giving them the vote - that women were in some way physically inferior to men.
Throughout the 1960s, as women began to demand more rights in all areas of life, pressure mounted for the ban to be lifted. However, the decade was nearly out before, on 1 November 1969, representatives from 44 clubs attended the first meeting of the Women’s Football Association (WFA). At a meeting of the FA Council on 19 January 1970, the FA voted to rescind the ban, but it wasn’t until 24 June 1971 that, at the FA’s AGM, the amendment was finally implemented, allowing women to legitimately play again.
In the years that followed, there were many firsts. Southampton won the first Women’s FA Cup in 1971. The first official WFA England team played Scotland in 1972 (England won 3-2, for anyone who’s keeping score). 1984 saw the first UEFA competition for national representative women’s teams. In 1991, a 24-club national league was founded and the same year introduced the inaugural FIFA Women’s World Cup.
Things were certainly looking up for the women’s game in England. The WFA had been brought under the umbrella of the FA during the 1993-94 season and, in 1998, the legendary Hope Powell was made the first full-time coach of the women’s team. The Women’s Euros came to England in 2005 and, although England failed to make it out of the group stage, fans flocked to the games in their replica shirts. Four years later, the FA introduced central contracts, which meant women could begin to make a career out of football, though their salaries of £16,000 may seem laughable today. The Women’s Super League (WSL) was launched in 2011, but wouldn’t turn fully professional until 2018.
Probably one of the most important moments though, for England’s women, was the appointment in September 2021 of Sarina Wiegman as head coach. Wiegman had won the 2017 Euros with her native Netherlands (who had roundly beaten England 3-0 in the semi-final) and her success was set to continue: England have lost just seven of the 47 matches they have played since she took charge.
Fast forward two years, and I’m watching in agony as England lose to Spain in the World Cup Final. And now, onto 2025, and I’m watching in joy as England reach their third major final in a row – and win, again, becoming the first English football team to retain a title and win a trophy on foreign soil. The manner in which they won may have received criticism from some quarters, but for me, it makes it all the more inspirational: the self-belief and resilience of this team means they may have been down at times, but they were never out. The players are now household names, their successes celebrated in the mainstream media; women’s football is now televised as a matter of course. Everything has changed.
My school has a permanent girls’ team now. So do all the other schools in the area. So do all the local grassroots clubs. But there is still work to be done. Girls are still less likely to kick a ball around at playtime (don’t even get me started on gendered footwear for schoolchildren), but the doors are at least open to them should they want to use them. Sometimes it’s a challenge to convince the kids to put down the Ronaldo book and pick up the Bronze one, but at least she’s on the shelf.
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Chloe Kelly celebrates her winning goal agains Italy. The supreme confidence of this woman is truly refreshing. |
I don’t watch men’s football anymore but I follow the women avidly, and try to enjoy the England women’s success without too much bitterness. I probably wouldn’t have ended up playing football professionally, but I would have liked the chance to find out. However, I do celebrate that there is now a generation of girls who can find out; who have a team full of incredible role models to look up to; women who have shown the grit, determination, physicality and confidence that girls are so often encouraged not to display. Long may it continue.
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References and further reading:
https://www.thefa.com/womens-girls-football/heritage/kicking-down-barriers
https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zjp8jsg
https://www.thewomensorganisation.org.uk/history-of-womens-football/
https://www.bbc.co.uk/teach/class-clips-video/articles/zbdjvk7
https://www.englandfootball.com/england/womens-senior-team/Legacy/History
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/football/66533140
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/newsbeat-33064421
https://womeninsport.org/resource/reframing-sport-for-teenage-girls-tackling-teenage-disengagement/
https://www.nuffieldhealth.com/article/menstrual-cycle-impact-on-physical-activity